https://blog.deepconvos.com/tags/theory-of-mind/Recent content in Theory-of-Mind on DeepConvos BlogHugoen© 2026 DeepConvosThu, 05 Mar 2026 00:00:00 +0000https://blog.deepconvos.com/posts/theory-of-mind-everyday-life/Thu, 05 Mar 2026 00:00:00 +0000https://blog.deepconvos.com/posts/theory-of-mind-everyday-life/<p>You read minds for a living.</p> <p>No, seriously. Every single day, dozens of times a day, you look at another human being and make a guess about what&rsquo;s going on inside their head. You do it when your partner says &ldquo;I&rsquo;m fine.&rdquo; You do it when your boss sends a one-line email with no greeting. You do it when the barista gives you a look that might be judgmental or might just be Tuesday.</p>https://blog.deepconvos.com/posts/everyone-has-a-different-codec/Mon, 02 Mar 2026 00:00:00 +0000https://blog.deepconvos.com/posts/everyone-has-a-different-codec/<p>What was your last argument really about?</p> <p>If you think carefully, most conflicts don&rsquo;t start with bad intentions. They start with <em>different interpretations</em> of the same words. Psychologist George Kelly noticed this decades ago: people don&rsquo;t passively receive reality — they actively <em>construct</em> it through personal lenses shaped by their entire life history (Kelly, 1955). Two people can witness the exact same event and walk away with completely different stories about what happened.</p>